I Miss My Grama

In no particular order, my Grama taught me how to spell and write my last name, work my multiplication tables, ride a bike, shell green beans on the front porch, “visit” and have a conversation, accessorize any outfit or ensemble, use loose tobacco to ease the pain of a wasp sting, tell the difference between milk and buttermilk before you pour it on your cereal, use a toaster and make a pop tart (which she’d cut up into little squares and slather with butter), the just right ratio of tiny marshmallows to hot cocoa, how to have perfect hair at all times, be kind to everyone I meet, love an occasionally difficult spouse, clean my room, pray for my family, enjoy a good soap opera, and leave a legacy marked by kindness, fidelity, faith and love. 

Mildred passed away quietly the week my son Moses was born. Moses turns 2 this week. I miss my Grama.

Five Features of My Ideal TV Remote

  1. Power Button
  2. Brightness Dial
  3. Input 1
  4. Input 2
  5. Input 3

The Highwomen & The Chain

I could take or leave Fallon, but good grief this is an absurd collection of talent. I’m enjoying The Highwomen collaborations.

Finding Brand True North

When a sailor is navigating by the stars they need a celestial constant — a star to reference all the other stars by, a key to unlock and understand the rest of the map.

As the Earth spins, the constellations in the northern hemisphere sky currently revolve around a single star called Polaris. It’s a “Pole Star,” a near foolproof way for sailors to find their bearings on a clear night.

Annapurna Star Trails  Credit & Copyright: Wang Jinglei, Jia Hao

A brand’s mission is no different. Every decision, every nook, cranny, fringe, and faction in the organization should revolve around their mission — spinning ’round the thing the organization exists to make happen. Defining that constant is literally mission critical.

I run a design studio, but our mission isn’t design, brand identity, or websites — those are just tactics. The tactics should never become the mission. When we work with new businesses and established organizations, first we have to understand their version of Polaris, then we can plot a course from where the brand is, over the visible horizon, to where it needs to be.

Design isn’t magic; it’s the disciplined process of changing existing situations to ideal ones. But to do that well, we need a destination beyond the craft. Without a shared destination, we lack shared mission. Arguing about taking a left or a right at the fork doesn’t matter if the designer and the client are operating off of two different maps.

Define what’s true, first. Then you can start your journey.


Amateur Celestial Navigation Tips

If you don’t know how to find Polaris, two constellations will help you see it—Ursa Major and Ursa Minor (aka The Big Dipper and The Little Dipper). Look at the front edge of The Big Dipper’s ladle, follow the path like you’re liquid being poured out, and you’ll run right in to Polaris, the last star in the handle of The Little Dipper.

Five Movies I’m Excited to See in the Rest of 2019

Mrs. Blankenship on 99u

The lovely and talented Mrs. Blankenship was recently interviewed alongside a few other folks on 99u about how life-changing experiences shaped their creative work.

On Changing the Game

I’m creating rules for the game so that I can have my little business support the life I want to live.

Let’s Talk About Into the Spider-Verse…
















I seriously still can’t stop thinking about it.

Rob Weychert went to a Phish show

“[N]o amount of antipathy for the hollowness of fashion can prepare you for how powerfully uncool Phish is.” Rob Weychert’s concert recaps are a thing to behold. You didn’t think you’d read a sentence with four semicolons about a jam band, but here you go…

Body Language

Give me your tired, your poor,
Your Black Ariels
Yearning to see mirrors on marquees,
Voices snatched by pale princesses —
girls who have every screen.
Send these, the faceless, tempest-tost to me.